Make a safety plan

If you feel vulnerable, scared or threatened by your partner, it's important to make a safety plan. This plan can help if you decide to leave your partner. It's also valuable to have a safety plan if you are in danger and need to get away quickly. Take these steps:

Call a women's shelter or a domestic violence hotline for support and advice. Hotline counselors can tell you about resources that can help as you make a safety plan. Call when your partner is away. Or call from a family member's or friend's home or other safe location. You may want to use someone else's phone for added privacy and safety.

Pack an emergency bag. Include items you'll need if you leave, such as clothes, extra keys, a phone charger, and spare glasses or contact lenses. Store the bag in a safe place. Keep it somewhere other than your home, if possible.

Keep important personal papers, money and prescription medications easily available. That way you can take them with you on short notice.

Keep a phone close by as much as possible. Have emergency numbers and key contacts entered into the phone so that you can call quickly if you need help.

Decide ahead of time where you'll go if you leave and how you'll get there.